{"id":9842,"date":"2012-04-11T19:02:07","date_gmt":"2012-04-12T00:02:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cozy-mystery.com\/blog\/?p=9842"},"modified":"2012-04-11T19:08:55","modified_gmt":"2012-04-12T00:08:55","slug":"hey-im-too-young-to-be-married-to-a-retired-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cozy-mystery.com\/blog\/hey-im-too-young-to-be-married-to-a-retired-man\/","title":{"rendered":"Hey! I&#8217;m Too Young to Be Married to a Retired Man!!!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This afternoon I mentioned (in a comment) that my husband recently retired a little earlier than we had planned. The last (+\/-) five years have brought on a few new &#8220;conditions&#8221; which are the impetus to his &#8220;early&#8221; retirement.<\/p>\n<p>I know that I have recently written about a few hospital stays he has had. These hospitalizations played a large part in our decision. I kept telling him that I thought it was time for him to &#8220;take it easy&#8221;&#8230; although, in his case, it will just be &#8220;a little easier&#8221;&gt;&gt;&gt; He&#8217;s not a &#8220;take it easy&#8221; type of guy.<\/p>\n<p>These last two weeks (he started his retirement at the beginning of April) have been a time of adjustment for both of us. I am trying to get him to sleep in longer, but after so many years of 6:00 am wake-ups, he considers 8:30 to be late. Also, since I used to get up right after he left, I no longer have my early morning routine going by 7:00 am. I am finding that if I have errands or shopping to do, I don&#8217;t even get out the house until at least 10:30.<\/p>\n<p>It is really nice having him home. However, it is a little &#8220;different&#8221;&gt;&gt;&gt; I&#8217;m used to coming and going whenever I want. I mean, I used to say goodbye to Sprite, but now I actually have a dialogue before I leave the house. I don&#8217;t simply pat my husband&#8217;s head in the kitchen and assure him &#8220;<em>I&#8217;ll be back soon.<\/em>&#8221; as I walk out the door. Unlike Sprite,\u00a0he actually talks back!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-9847\" title=\"Vacuum\" src=\"https:\/\/cozy-mystery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Vacuum1-e1334189113451.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"170\" height=\"170\" \/>Luckily, he has a lot of interests, so I won&#8217;t need to entertain him. I have mentioned that it would be nice if we could do more things together&#8230; like clean the house. He actually said he would vacuum the house IF we get a self-propelled vacuum &#8211; which is currently at the top of my Wish List. (Of course, I do wonder how I was able to run our vacuum for so many years without even knowing there was such a thing as &#8220;self-propelled&#8221; vacuums.)<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m glad he&#8217;s home. I just wish I could get him to sleep in longer AND take it a little easier.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This afternoon I mentioned (in a comment) that my husband recently retired a little earlier than we had planned. The last (+\/-) five years have brought on a few new &#8220;conditions&#8221; which are the impetus to his &#8220;early&#8221; retirement. I know that I have recently written about a few hospital stays he has had. 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