{"id":75,"date":"2007-06-23T13:33:15","date_gmt":"2007-06-23T18:33:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cozy-mystery.com\/blog\/if-you-dont-have-anything-nice-to-say-then-tell-me.html"},"modified":"2007-06-23T13:33:15","modified_gmt":"2007-06-23T18:33:15","slug":"if-you-dont-have-anything-nice-to-say-then-tell-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cozy-mystery.com\/blog\/if-you-dont-have-anything-nice-to-say-then-tell-me\/","title":{"rendered":"If You Don&#039;t Have Anything Nice to Say&#8230;. Then Tell Me!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My family has encouraged me to give the names of authors I have tried and could not abide. I guess that &quot;abide&quot; is a pretty strong word&#8230;. but, there are several authors who I really <u>cannot make<\/u> myself read. The other night, when I put down that book (after trying unsuccessfully for more than a week to read it) I went to my list of authors and wrote a big &quot;YUCK&quot; by her name. I also proceeded to mark off the chronological list of her books&#8230; to make sure that I don&#8217;t accidentally buy any more. Once I finished annotating my&nbsp;&quot;YUCK&quot; and strike-out marks, I got both of the books that I own&nbsp;ready to donate to my library. I am that sure that I will never want to attempt to read her work again.<\/p>\n<p>So, my family wonders why I don&#8217;t &quot;blog&quot; the name of the author. They think that I should be honest and &quot;tell it like it is.&quot; But, that really isn&#8217;t how &quot;it is.&quot; The main reason I don&#8217;t give a strong opinion about an author who I can&#8217;t force myself to like, is that there are other people who truly enjoy that very same author. I just don&#8217;t want to prejudice people who might want to give that author a try in the future who might become a fan of that author&#8230;&nbsp;like so many other people. I know it sounds VERY presumptuous of me to think that I might influence someone who is&nbsp;choosing&nbsp;an author&nbsp;for the first time, hoping to find a new favorite&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>I have one friend in particular who absolutely loves an author who I have tried to read&#8230;.&nbsp; <u><strong>five<\/strong><\/u> times&#8230;. unsuccessfully! Each time I tried to have a positive attitude when I started reading the first book in her series, but each time I felt like everything about the book was &quot;forced.&quot; I simply could not enjoy that particular author.&nbsp;This friend of mine knows how I feel about that author, and sometimes I wonder if she tries to avoid talking about how much she likes her. I know that she eagerly awaits a new book by that author, and, when I come across a new book by the author (while updating my cozy mystery list), I tell her about the new book. But, that&#8217;s as far as it goes&#8230;&#8230;&#8230; she never&nbsp;tells me how much she enjoyed the book, or even if she&nbsp;read it.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, getting back to my family&#8217;s thought about this subject&#8230; Do people who come to this site want me to disclose which authors I simply cannot enjoy? I think that, no, they don&#8217;t. But, my husband and two in-their-early 20s children think that yes, I should &quot;tell it like it is.&quot; If you have any thoughts on this question (or comments on how I could improve this site)&#8230;. please feel free to write a comment to me. (There is a very dim gray line under this blog post with a button to comment.)&nbsp; I&#8217;d love to hear what you think!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My family has encouraged me to give the names of authors I have tried and could not abide. I guess that &quot;abide&quot; is a pretty strong word&#8230;. but, there are several authors who I really cannot make myself read. 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